Zhao Wei: life is painful, you have to endure

One

The interview was arranged in time of the Spring Festival approaching, 9 in the morning to see Zhao Wei, her makeup, wearing a hoodie, wearing a thick scarf sitting in front of mirror, drinking coffee, while yawning, and easily conceal some will be look tired in the holiday.

"The Spring Festival will have a week off, but everyone is a sense of ritual, the others did not, with big and small net package. "She wrote on micro-blog," summarizing all the busy, a week after the day in fact is still the same, but the sense of ceremony has a soothing effect, feel any bad things can go past andthrew last year...... "

The past year was not easy, but she said it was a good year for the future". "People do one thing for a long time, will be tired, some of the test or what ah, can let a person's state of mind suddenly returned to the new feeling. "

The distance with the "Princess" overnight fame has been in the past nearly 20 years, she is no longer the focus will be sudden, and "blowing the whole society" frightened the little girl. In the process of transition from actor to director, to maximize the role of the pros and cons of fame brought to her, so far, no one can deny that one of her most famous title - "China interview actress than I had a turbulent and complex few".

"Too many people still regard her as a star, and the halo on her head is too strong, too strong, and many people can't turn her back. Photographer Ceng Jian said.

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Zhao Wei as a close partner, as well as the impact of rare good teachers and helpful friends, screenwriter Li Qiang said in an interview summary of the unrest brought her: "I think she was being bullied by fame, also reviled. She will know that it is meaningless to fight for a short time for me to fight for a superficial victory. I think it is more important that she feels that she can improve herself through this matter. "

For Zhao Wei, the 20 years of change, only from a simple starting point - I would like to have a career, you can take care of mom and dad and family". She has no plans to leave no stone unturned, in her opinion, that experience is not supported on complex life and imagination.

But she does have some ignorant wish. That makes her eyes shine on, when once plagued her. "When I was a child, I was so cute, I always looked like a pair of eyes, big eyes a stare, very naive, very annoying. In fact, I particularly want to become a taste of that type. "

Take time, at the right time to give her what she wants. "A lot of Pisces age is still playing cute, Kavai, the kind of girl, but I am not, I am not character, I do not like sticky, a touch of the kind of character and state. "

Until now, she still believes that he was pushed by time and reality, can not stop nor retreat, all the way to play free down.

4 years ago, she had described his feelings after the age of 30 in the interview, after the heart of their own set a lot of, especially know what they want to do, what can be done in. So many things are gambling mentality to do, luck, there will be some fear, but also tend to touch the jackpot. If you can do something now, you'll feel it before. "

But now she is not keen to talk about themselves, even if it is very light, very light tone. She reversed her former ideas and changed her life.

"In this world, not to say that the 35 year old can see himself alive. "Zhao Wei said," in the creation, did not say the 30 year old seems to have decided, at the age of 40 as steady as Mount Tai. In fact, maybe 60 years old, you may not be able to settle down. Everyone's life is change unpredictably, but some people's stories are magnified, everyone can see. "

Both as an actor and director, Zhao Wei has achieved the success of the secular standards, but for her, these identities have not yet brought spiritual freedom. She knew that she has not reached the realm of freedom, not a thing to play with the mentality of ease, but they have to do.

"You've got enough experience, enough strength, enough judgment, you're not a child, a person who is more capable and experienced than you are, and you may be old enough to take a break. You can not now, how do you say I follow how to do, it is the child's experience of growing up experience. You can only do this kind of development and creation, you can not ask other people or smaller than you, ask what? "

During the interview, the photographer Chen Man in the side of the selection of clothing, Zhao Wei looked at her, suddenly came inspiration.

In 2017, Zhao Wei will be more to participate in the creation of the film producer, is planning a movie which is based on the Beijing dialect of the fantasy story. In the dressing room, she designed a temporary role as an object more enchanting than shooting the photographer to grew up in the Beijing Nancheng Chen man, even the details of the design of a good action. Zhao Wei in front of the make-up mirror, Chen diffuse behind her side while learning to laugh.

It's obviously more exciting than talking about herself.

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Two

In the first fifteen months, Alec Su, Zhao Wei, and Mr. Ruby Lin seldom got together for dinner. Three people after the photo was put on the micro-blog, the user does not lead to a nostalgic sentiment. 20 years ago, they are the "little swallow", "five brothers", "Ziwei", with a face to hide the naive and sentimental, baby fat, 20 years later, they are not only "actor" this one identity is no longer a summary of one or two words can describe the young people.

That night, Zhao Wei and Ruby Lin had just become a mother herself and her daughter talked about a lot of small story from April two people turned aside the mobile phone photos, while the irrepressible joy, Alec Su listens, feel very interesting. They don't often meet, but for Alec Su, this is the most precious place of friendship. "Friends to this extent, are not niniwaiwai age, I'm not motionless, say disgusting words greetings, but these people will live in your heart. "

In 2013, Zhao Wei's directorial debut "we eventually lost youth" will be released, she called Alec Su, raised a premiere date, asked him if he wanted to. When Alec Su was filming the movie "sweet murder", he hastily figured, the day before the premiere at just fixing, so happy to a promise. Green day, he could hardly sleep, direct flight from Taiwan to Beijing, and went to the premiere of the film.

"This grew up with a friend, her life is an important moment, I must not, I spell. Alec Su said with a smile. Zhao Wei treated him, and so did.

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Just get the movie "left ear" scheme, Alec Su and Zhao Wei together in Shanghai to record "China's Got Talent", often was recorded in three days, "the three days is recorded from morning to night to death". One night, Alec Su with the left ear of the novel to find Zhao Wei, told her to do the director himself, to take this book, asked her if she had a chance to look at, give some advice.

To his surprise, Zhao Wei spent the whole night reading the book. On the second day, she said to Alec Su, "the story is a little too big, it will be hard to adapt.". At that time the film left ear is still in the stage of team building, Zhao Wei gave him a lot of recommendations that she believed the candidates, she felt that you really want to find the people who really want to help you". Recall that these have moved him so far.

"In addition to the list of known actors, she later was director, friends, and cultural image of communicators, but no matter later again as a complex, diverse, her bones like me the same kind of generous, true, have something to speak out the temperament is still not changed. "

The movie "left ear" tells a story about adolescent confusion, struggle and growth story for Alec Su, Zhao Wei is singing the theme song of choice.

"If it is a young girl to sing, she is the same age as the heroine Li Er, she needs to use the first person to sing, it may be that I am in pain, I have to learn to endure. But if you are looking for Zhao Wei, we all know that the growth of Zhao Wei, she had a lot of intermediate waves change radically, but she was very brave, very real, very sincere, you can hear it in her voice. So she will be a big sister's point of view to tell the young people, very painful, you have to endure, she can use a person's perspective to interpret the growth of youth, the tone is different. "

To offer, Zhao Wei is very cautious, she was too busy, afraid you can't handle. Alec Su told her that he couldn't find anyone at this time, and no one could do better than her. "She came that her character. Zhao Wei promised to come down. Get the song, she wants to see the film, grasp the overall feeling, listen to songs will be placed in what position, grasp the emotion, the understanding, before the official start recording songs.

She did not live up to Alec Su's expectations, the end of the song MV, the old friend for her thumbs up.

Three

April 14, 2015, "left ear" theme of the conference, Alec Su and the film side each donated $250 thousand to Zhao Wei and Matt culture media CEO Chen Lizhi launched V love leukemia special fund (hereinafter referred to as "V love fund").

Unlike the general public welfare projects, leukemia relief cost, high risk, because the worldwide problem of transplant rejection, patients with low survival rate, short survival time, before this, almost no specific leukemia rescue fund.

"A large amount of funds, means of fundraising pressure; high risk means that there may be a public relations crisis at any time, especially related to the low survival rate of transplant leukemia; there are a lot of people are not willing to do the project leukemia donations, not because of money, but because the investment is very high and the cost of effort, finally because of surgery the failure or rejection of his patients, the donor emotion is a big blow. Chen Lizhi explains.

Chen Lizhi is known as the "Star Charity promoter" said, has worked with Fan Bingbing, Yu Quan and many other stars have public projects, because of "Youth" in the familiar marketing and investment cooperation with Zhao Wei, he has helped her to contact the public welfare donation of about 2 million. During the chat, Zhao Wei told Chen Lizhi that she wanted to do a fixed, long-term public projects. Chen Lizhi consider again and again, decided to have his own public interest cases of leukemia rescue introduced to her.

"One is because transplants require a large amount of money, so Wei elder sister's appeal is two; we are shouldering the dissemination of correct treatment of leukemia, and the dissemination of" leukemia is the two purposes of this idea can be treated, "Wei elder sister has this social influence; third is the leukemia project risk, the need to play threatened by growing crises. Man, Wei elder sister is just a sense of responsibility, positive energy of the people. "

The risk of leukemia projects, difficulties, as well as little concern in this field and no one dared to touch the status quo, after Chen Lizhi's surprise, Zhao Wei did not hesitate to confirm. She told Chen Lizhi, there is always someone to do, since others do not, then we do it.

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December 24, 2014, V love fund was formally established, a special funding 3 to 14 years old children with leukemia transplant surgery. Zhao Wei and Chen Lizhi were donated 1 million and 500 thousand as the initial start-up funds. At that time, Star Charity is experiencing a crisis of confidence, facing the people of both the capital flow and questioned whether the show.

"Wei elder sister was not too much to worry about, she is always careless, but do not only pay attention to consider the risk effect. "But they have to come up with a long running fund - all donated to V love fund, for children with leukemia relief, does not produce any management fees, administrative fees; fund management and execution of the administrative affairs, by Zhao Wei and Chen Lizhi alone to bear all the costs. Also, each monthly donations are on micro-blog for publicity.

"This is a lot of units can not do before, for the scale of the disease, she was able to overcome this difficulty, to do this thing, I think it's amazing. "Alec Su said," the public credit crisis, from my point of view of the beholder, I think there is a very big impact on the overall social atmosphere. I think Zhao Wei can break this impasse, breaking all doubts, do this thing, really good ah. "

After the establishment of the fund, the degree of participation Zhao Wei also let Chen Lizhi surprise. All along, he and the star in the public interest on the basis of cooperation to follow a fixed pattern - Star responsible for fundraising, responsible for the influence, he is responsible for the implementation of operations. However, from the first day of the establishment of the V love fund, Zhao Wei almost full investment. She has caught up with micro-blog fund officer micro, and personally preparing for the two anniversary of the dinner, a person raised a good section of the about 17000000. "

Alec Su saw Zhao Wei micro-blog know V love fund, she did not particularly mentioned with him. After careful study of all the articles published on the Internet, Alec Su simply made a donation decision. "At least I do not have the ability to do the foundation of such things, but Zhao Wei, you wore (Star charity trust crisis) pressure, do this thing out, that's good, I want to donate directly to you, you do, too good, I support you in this matter. It is so simple. "

V love fund has been established more than two years have passed, a total of more than 30 people who have donations, almost every month a fixed donation of 5000 yuan, there are hundreds of blocks, several times a month to two years. Chen Lizhi is pleased to see the attitude of people to treat the public interest, and these contributions in more than two years to fund 26 children with leukemia.

At the end of 2016, the two anniversary of the charity dinner, Alec Su pledged after the successful completion of surgery in children with building your picture will Siyuan came to him, at that moment, he truly felt a sense of happiness. That night, he once again donated 250 thousand yuan, which means that there will be a child suffering from leukemia.

With the accumulation of experience, V love fund is gradually expand the rescue range, the first is to relax the age limit from 3 years to 14 years expanded to 3 years old to 22 years old, and from the beginning of 2017, the number of annual assistance from 12 people to 24 people.

Zhao Wei and Chen Lizhi both understand that this is a business that needs to be maintained for a long time. Our common wish is that one day we are gone, V love fund is still. "

"She was androgynous. Talking about his 20 years of good friends, Alec Su's voice is a proud. "She has a woman very sensitive, she actually love itself is very strong, at the same time she has male aura, when she needs time to domineering, decisive, she can do. So that people can not only playmates, dude, is your partner, your CP screen, the future may also be partners. She is not a woman. "

(this is an excerpt from "Esquire" magazine in 2017 3)